WHY WHY WHY!?!?

Why is it that right when you think your over someone and you don't care anymore they send you cute little messages that makes you care again, but you don't want to because you know if you do the same thing will happen!?!? UUGH! I'm so sick of guys! I wish I could see 10 years into my future and just see who I end up marring so I won't have to waste my time on all of these jerks and losers! And just look for him! It would make life soo much easier!